RANT I

the title itself warns you that a rant is coming..beware.

so, lately, a something has been bothering me. girl friends, and their boys. kay, seriously, why is it that, in some cases, when a girl finds a boy, their lives revolve around them? nothing matters more than that guy, they cancel plans because of them, they refuse to follow through with plans because their guy doesn't want them to go out, they listen to whatever the boy says, and make decisions based on their boys opinions. WTF?! why is it that some girls totally lose their Independence. it's EXTREMELY annoying. also, why is it that girls get extremely jealous by dumb little things their guy does. just because he's talking to some other girls doesn't mean he's cheating on you. unless you have physical proof, don't make assumptions. and if you're unable to actually have a conversation about what's bothering you about your boy, really how great is your relationship with him? why is it that they are worried about how the relationship will end up after she talks out how she feels? grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr. yes, I'm fine with being a good friend and listening to you and how you feel, but you kinda need to do the same thing with your guy to resolve whatever underlying issues you have. but as a very independent lady, what bothers me most is the amount of dependence girls have for guys once a relationship starts up. what exactly will they do if it ends, or if the guy has super eff'd up opinions? will they just go with it, or actually gain a backbone? urghhhhhh.

rant: done. (yes this was poorly written, but it accomplished it's goal of making me feel slightly better. back to LFS250..)